Yesterday I wrote about a situation at St. Francis Xavier church in New York City. After presenting my evidence, I asked AmP readers to contact the Archdiocese of New York so they can look into it and take the appropriate action.
One of my readers also sent a note to the pastor of the parish, Fr. Joe Costantino. Here is what he wrote back:
Like Jesus, who founded the Church, we minister to all peoples, Jews and Gentiles, saint and sinners, rich and poor. We are to be compassionate and loving to all, would you not agree? We have a welcome table in which the poor are fed, a place each night for the homeless to be sheltered, an opportunity each week for families with children to gather for catechesis, a place for young adults to explore what it is to be single in NYC, and yes we also provide an opportunity for those with same sex orientation to gather to explore together how to spiritually grow closer to God. Being male or female, black, white, Asian or Latino is a given as is being heterosexual, bisexual or gay. Minsitering to all these various people created by God is not suggesting anything but care and compassion. I am sorry if you think welcome and outreach along with love and care for all peoples without discrimination is not Catholic or of Christ. However, we here at St. Francis Xavier endeavor to follow as closely as we can the Gospels which show Jesus time and again as one who welcomed, ministered, healed, and eat [sic] with all sorts of people. I trust you and all Catholics who profess to follow Jesus as disciples are each and every day doing so as well without prejudice or discrimination, but showing in word and deed enormous love and compassion for saint and sinner alike.
I find his response unsatisfying, and even condescending. Let’s try to set the record straight.
I am not impugning the validity of being compassionate and loving to all: I’m saying I do not think it is compassionate and loving to encourage people in harmful behavior that violates their human dignity. Homosexual acts do not allow someone to grow spiritually closer to God. Being homosexual is not exactly like being male or female: it creates a unique challenge to living a holy and upright life. Nor is it “discriminating” to tell people that some lifestyles are inappropriate and wrong. The lifestyle championed by “Gay Pride” parades in this country – which this parish supports – is not a Christian lifestyle.
Let’s talk about what Jesus taught us through his ministry to sinners: that sin keeps us from Him. Whenever Jesus associated himself with the sinners, prostitutes and thieves, he always called them to repentance. Is this what happens in this parish’s encounters with persons who have a homosexual orientation? How does hosting a Cabaret, an event with a very specific meaning to the homosexual community, bring people closer to Christ’s love? How can one love by hiding the truth, especially the truth about the consequences of sexual sin? We live in a culture that constantly tries to obscure the supernatural vision of sexuality and human dignity which Christ reveals – is this parish a sign of contradiction against this evil lie, or an accomplice?
In a concrete way, 1) does Fr. Joe Costantino support the authentic ministry offered to homosexual persons through organizations such as Courage? 2) Does he support the clear teaching of the Church as described well by Deacon Keith Fournier here? And does he condemn his own parish’s sponsorship of the the event last week promoting Equality Ride 2010, created by the anti-Catholic organization Soul Force?
Fr. Joe has some explaining to do, to all Catholics who “profess to follow Jesus as disciples.”
If you think Fr. Joe should explain all this to the Archdiocese of New York, let them know at Communications@archny.org.
Photo: The Church of Saint Francis Xavier online photo album.